HAPPY 2017, Y’ALL!
The dreaded 2016 is finally over. #praise
Now y’all are probably (still) dying to know what’s going on in my dating life (at least I hope y’all still care). Here’s a brief recap:
- Met a guy out at a bar who I thought was amazing, funny, sweet, etc. I was looking to slow get to know him and he was looking for someone to fill the girlfriend position in his life. Long story short, he got bored when I wasn’t ready to bare my soul to him after three weeks and moved on.
- Met up with my ex and his new girlfriend. Turns out I’m doing just fine on my own.
- Finally decided to end something that has run its course. Details to come on the execution because I hate conflict (lol).
So what have I learned in 2017? I’ll tell ya:
- A guy won’t respect you anymore than he already does if you wait to have sex with him. If you wanna fuck him, go ahead.
- Closure is an AMAZING feeling. Tie up your loose ends and move on.
- Take a break from dating assholes and give a nice guy a chance. They deserve it and you deserve to be treated well.
- Keep an open mind. You never know when a random Tinder match can grow into something more.
- Being single during the holidays is freakin’ fantastic. No one to kiss at midnight, but who needs someone when you and your girls get into a club for free? Having a boy at midnight would have just been a party pooper. Plus you won’t have anyone trying to get a piece of your rumcake. Win win win.
In all seriousness, thanks for hanging in there with me last year! Thanks for reading and sharing my stories – it means to lot. Cheers to getting more dates and giving less fucks this year.